Tantrums, paddies, fit, bad mood, kick off, fuss, carry on……………………………...no matter what the terminology you use everyone has an opinion. Are they really tantrums of misplaced feelings? When an adult becomes over emotional, we don’t say they are having a tantrum, we state what they are feeling and why, so why don’t we do this with children? Is it because we believe children don’t understand their feelings, is it because we don’t feel there is always a reason behind it or is it because we don’t value and child’s reaction as much as an adults, after all it is ‘ only a tantrum’ isn’t it? How did you react last…